How to Make First Meetings with a Colombia Woman Go Smoothly

So, you’ve been regularly communicating with a Colombia woman. She has all the qualities you’d want and the best part is you have great chemistry. Of course, the next logical step is to finally meet in person. So much so that you wouldn’t mind embarking on Medellin tours as an excuse to visit her.

Before you proceed to the next stage of your relationship, it’s crucial you meet in person first. A face-to-face encounter will help you gauge your compatibility and confirm whether there is a spark or not.

Are you ready to finally meet your Colombian dream girl? If so, here are some ways for your first encounter to go smoothly:

• Arrive early (or at least on time).

  Even in Colombia culture, arriving late is frowned upon. It’s a sure way to leave a bad impression. While being on time is acceptable, being early gives you time to prepare yourself (e.g. fix your hair, adjust your tie, etc.). You aren’t just going out by yourself, so it’s only understandable that you value her time as well.

• Pick an event or activity you both agree on.

  If you want her to have a good time, make sure to plan an activity that you both enjoy, such as savoring Colombian food. After all, you wouldn’t want her to miss out on the fun. More importantly, how do you think you would look picking an event only you would enjoy? It would seem like you are disregarding her interests.

  Aside from being courteous, enjoying something together would solidify your bond. The shared experience would deepen the connection.

• Respect her personal space and boundaries.

  Don’t get too touchy with her. You might think it’s alright to do so considering you’ve known each other for some time. However, keep in mind that this is still your first meeting.

  Regardless of whether she’s traditionally conservative or not, you should still respect her personal space. If anything, it would be best to let her initiate any physical contact or at least have her give you cues.

• Stick to light topics.

  To avoid putting your foot in your mouth, try to stay away from hot button topics like politics and religion. While there is nothing wrong with expressing your views, there is a chance that you might alienate her with your opinions. The worst case scenario is that your differences in views might lead to a full-blown disagreement. This would not be a good way to establish rapport with a girl you’re planning to date.

• Take your time getting to know each other.

  That’s the whole point of the date in the first place. How are you supposed to proceed with a relationship if you two barely know each other? You can take this opportunity to ask questions you weren’t able to ask while communicating online. This interaction will also reveal more of your date's personality.

The important thing is to be courteous and respectful during the first meeting. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have fun. Share a few laughs and jokes with her so you could both be at ease during the encounter and could possibly lead to some romance.