Too Busy That You Can't Date? Try Speed Dating!

In this fast-paced age, single folks don’t have the time to meet new people and get into a relationship with a potential partner. So, most of them do speed dating — an event where you get to meet and socialize with other single folks.

For some, it’s a fun and interesting way to find a potential date.

But before trying it out, look into how the event works and determine if and why you should do it.

First of All, What Is Speed Dating?

Speed dating centers on meeting new people in a friendly and laid-back setting, often in a function room or a bar with exclusive use.

It’s often arranged by individuals, organizations, or even professional matchmakers. They advertise the event with specific age ranges so that you won’t have to worry about meeting someone way younger or older than you.

How Does It Work?

Your speed dating journey starts with booking your tickets beforehand to ensure an equal number of female and male participants at each event.

During the event, you have three to ten minutes to talk to your first date before changing spots to talk to someone else. This period is enough to give you a glimpse of who you’re talking to and determine whether or not there’s a spark.

Usually, you’ll hear a bell to signal you to move over and talk to another participant.

Depending on the number of participants present, you often get to talk to at least five people. Then, the organizers will encourage you to write the names of the people you’d want to spend more time with, and they’ll see if there are any matches.

Once the event is over, you can ask for the other party’s contact information to stay in touch and plan a date between yourselves. You can meet halfway in your schedule if you’re both too busy to date.

The Pros of Speed Dating

It eliminates pressure.

Through speed dating, you can meet new people without feeling obliged to leave your contact details. That makes it the perfect approach for those who aren’t comfortable with sharing personal information with strangers – unless you decide otherwise.

You’re in control.

You can pick the people you feel connected to. You can use your short encounters to determine whether you’re attracted to them, if you have similarities, or if you simply want to stay in touch.

It’s fun and safe.

In addition to finding a potential date, you also get the chance to make friends and hang out with new faces.

You also won’t have to worry about your safety because these events are organized and hosted by professional matchmakers, giving you the opportunity to enjoy the event.

Again, just make sure you do your research before signing up to join one.

Get the Chance to Meet Eligible Singles

Many people realize that meeting potential partners in person is a good way to find out if there’s chemistry right from the start. Traditional dating can be time-consuming, making it more challenging to know where you can find other singles.

But with speed dating, it can be a memorable and fun experience.

As mentioned, this event caters to those who barely have the time to go online or visit public places to meet eligible singles. It’s not the most ideal way to find a suitable partner, but it’s definitely worth a try.

This story was originally published in Medium: Too Busy That You Can’t Date? Try Speed Dating!